Day 11 #30DayWritingChallenge
30days
What is the biggest lesson you learned till now?
Life goes
on, all the problems are endless. Suffering, but also learning to take lessons
from every incident. There are many lessons I have learned so far, especially
during this pandemic. Some I wrote below:
Enjoy life
A simple
thing that shows that we are grateful for life is to enjoy it. Since the
pandemic took place, many lives have been lost by them. We forget how to enjoy
life in peace. There are many ways to enjoy life. Living simply is a way of
enjoying life. There's no need to be jealous of people's achievements, and try
to live life as casually as possible. Just make yourself happy like going to
the beach, reading a book, or enjoying your favorite food.
Stand alone
Everyone
who comes alive will not last forever. Time will select them, whether to stay
or leave our lives. Accepting the fact that some of them are no longer with us
is a valuable lesson. Standing alone is not a bad thing when everything will
disappear and leave. Of course in life, there are times when we have to do
everything alone. A difficult thing, but time will make you get used to it.
Don't regret too much
Every life
decision made today will determine what will happen in the future. As humans,
some of the decisions we make will not always go well. Mistakes after mistakes
make us sometimes regret it in the future. That is a natural thing in my
opinion. But there is one thing we need to remember, life goes on, we can't
change the past, All we can do is try to fix it today so it doesn't get worse in
the future. Stop feeling overly regretful, it won't change anything, trust me.
Don't be too much to respond to an issue
Before
involving ourselves in an issue, double-checking the truth of the facts is
something we need to do. Get in the habit of cross-checking before giving an
opinion. The adage that "silence is gold" is still relevant now. Do
not be too quick to respond to issues without us knowing what really happened
in full. Prevent to makes us look stupid from an issue that possibly fools us
easily. Be patient, and also be smart.
Don't be too fanatical about something
Too much of
anything is never good for our lives. Like being too excessive in liking
something or can be called a fanatic. Fanaticism is very blinding, biasing us
in some ways. Until one day, that fanaticism makes us look so stupid.
Most of the
things I have learned in life are about controlling myself. About not overdoing
it in any way. Act appropriately, and keep my expectations on a safe line.
Focus only on what I can control, not others.